Sexual desire is as diverse as it is personal, and sometimes we don’t find it easy to share our most intimate thoughts even with the people closest to us.
We use a variety of methods to overcome these inhibitions and now more and more couples are getting started with sexual role play as a means to take on a different persona and explore their lesser-expressed fantasies.
Sexual role play is not a new idea, but it is a good one and as such many sensual scenarios have been created, explored and ultimately shared.
The possibilities are limited only the imagination, so if getting dressed up in the name of sexual self-discovery sounds appealing to you, here are a few simple ideas just to get you started.
The Boss and the Secretary
As one of many role plays where one person has the power under which the other becomes utterly helpless, this is a great introduction to bondage.
When one of you plays the boss, the other can be the eager-to-please assistant, or even one who has been slacking off terribly; either way the paperwork has been mounting up for too long and it’s about time the two of you got down to a bit of long overdue after hours admin.
Arrange for you and your partner to meet somewhere on your journey from A to B, but don’t be too specific as this will help increase the anticipation.
The hitchhiker stranded on the side of the road might not have any money to pay for gas but we’re sure you can pull over somewhere secluded and find even better ways for them to repay the driver’s kindness.
Teacher and Pupil
Another classic that is especially good as it allows the two of you to reverse the Dominant and submissive roles whenever and however often you want.
Perhaps the fresh-out-of-college high school teacher just can’t control one particularly disobedient student, or the savvy college professor has this sexy sophomore hanging on their every word.
Students – both male and female – develop crushes on their teachers all the time. The question is, how are you two going to ensure that the fires of your desires don’t end up in a burning scandal?
Something’s wrong with your internet connection, there’s a light bulb that needs changing that’s just out of reach, or maybe all this deliberately sabotaging your electrical appliances has left you hungry for a little bit more than what the pizza delivery guy has got in his box.
There’s something about sex with a stranger that can be a real turn on, so when the someone rings your bell and you answers in your finest lingerie, that’s a wireless signal we can all get our heads around.
Man Maid Action
Imagine his surprise when this sexy stranger in her tantalizing French maid outfit shows up on the doorstep and gets going with the dirties kind of cleaning he’s ever seen. This can also offer a role-reversal of the more typical ‘man delivers service to the woman’s door’ if you switch who plays the overworked professional who happens to be working from home that day.
All that reaching, bending and stretching to those hard to reach places will give him a show that is just too tempting to resist.
Playing Doctors and Nurses
We know this scenario is a little cliché and far from an original role play idea, but there’s a reason why it’s such a time-honoured favourite. And that reason is: because sexy nurses and dashing doctors are awesome.
Few other real-life situations allow two people to get so close together. As the two of you innocently try to discover what the problem might be, those hands might stumble upon something altogether naughtier, meaning you’ll soon be having the kind of check-up that would have us all going back on a more regular basis.